FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO WORK ON YOUR GOALS DAILY ??? READ THIS

 

You decide on a particular day that this would be the last day when you run away from working hard for your goals . You arrange all the resources books , sports equipment , gears or whatever it may be required . You listen to motivational lectures and get inspired , you shut down your phone and isolate yourself from the social media just to make sure nothing comes in your way . BUT on the very first day you MESS UP!!!!!!!

You cannot ignore the  phone call , or your friends’ facebook messages or your favorite dish . And suddenly you feel guilty for not doing what you have planned for. You start questioning your own potential . Some of you may even think that you may not be capable enough to achieve that particular goal of yours . 

I will be writing something below which I have used and got results . I too like many others have faced such situations and I OVERCAME . So dear friends I am going to pour something really deep . Stop all activities you are engaged with and read this with ultimate peace in your mind.

” When you realize that its not possible to follow the schedule , routine , diet or workout and you find your self loosing the grip . Just stand up and go to a MIRROR nearby and WATCH your self . FACE TO FACE .  Face the person who always FAIL . Face the person who quits . Face the person who procrastinate . And then ask to your self seeing deep into your own eyes why you are DOING SUCH A THING TO YOUR SELF . WHY you are letting the expectations of people who love you , believe in you , down ? How can you let your dreams just slip away infront of your own yes ?? Then stay silent for two minutes “

Then no matter what ever the time may be . No matter if you have to wake the whole night . No matter if you have to skip your meals . No matter if you have to go out for a run in the afternoon . No matter what you go and KILL THAT DAY …... 

“All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up in the day to find it was vanity, but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”  – T.E LAWRENCE

FAILED …. ready to bounce back ??? KEEP 3 Things in mind

 

Now this will change things I promise . After all the COME BACKS I have analysed , I found out that every one who has ever succeeded after failing have done 3 things , which are common to all.

1 . You have already failed and still you are on track to accomplish that SOMETHING . So find out reasons for your failure . Make a list and compare this list to those who have succeeded in doing that thing or they are considered to be capable enough to achieve that target . See what other qualities they have . Make a list of all and then……………………………. LICK THEM ALL.. KILL IT…!!!!

2. You couldn’t make the last time but you know you could have done it . This is the case with most of us . Once the results are out and we fail , we claim that if we have tried harder we might have done that . Now you all must realize that there are things stopping you from achieving your goals . Lack of focus , distractions , weak will power and many others . You can change this behavior but for that you have to BEAT YOUR MINDSET . Every time your mind says you can’t , SCREAM to it that YOU WILL . And then immediately start doing things , start taking actions immediately . You have to act like a champion . Realize that as you go to study , workout , office work or do anything you tend to get distracted . Don’t be . Next time you get distracted say to your self you can’t cheat on your dreams and then get back to work . It will be difficult for few days but then it will be a habit . WINNING IS A HABIT .. NOT A COINCIDENCE .

3. For all those who find it difficult to spend quality amount of time doing your stuff start using the word NO more often . Somebody asks you to party and you are yet to complete your work for today , SAY NO . Somebody asks you to go out and have food which might spoil your diet plan .. SAY NO.  Somebody may ask you to skip your workout for a day .. SAY NO . Say no to everything that distracts you from your goals may it be social media like whatsapp , facebook or parties with friends or it may be your mobile phones . You got to make some sacrifices . It isn’t easy because if it was easy everybody could have done that…

So get back and live your dreams….

Waiting for the right time ??????? WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I have been tired of meeting people having ideas , dreams , goals and  talent inside them and still not doing anything . They can visualize things . They know they can do it but they wait  , wait , wait and wait for the RIGHT TIME to come .

Actually I figured out by talking to them that the RIGHT TIME they talk about is actually a time when the chances of failure get reduce to almost 90% . When they realize that now taking a particular step is on a safer side and will give them minimum loss , some of them never find that RIGHT TIME and they live their entire life seeing others fulfilling their dreams .

How many times you have thought of doing something but stopped just fearing that I am not strong enough or competent enough or don’t have the required resources and so the failure seems imminent .  How many times we want to start working on our dreams but we fear thinking what if we do not HIT ??

To all my friends and readers I want to say… The RIGHT TIME you all are waiting for will never come . What you have to do is just forget about the result and start working on your goals . Things will never be perfect , resources will never be surplus , you will never have the sufficient money . Every thing will come automatically when you start working for your goals .

Just do one thing forget about all the hurdles coming across your path towards your dreams and start working towards it . Just take the three simple steps given below.

1. If you do not have any resource to start with start GATHERING INFORMATION about your dream .

2. Start reading about people who have already achieved that dream .

3. Most important start sharing to your family members , friends and community about what you want to do .

Some will mock at your dreams , ignore them , do not pay attention to them . There will be some who will help you and show you how to take that first step towards your goal . And I promise just by doing 3 things mentioned above you will see results in a month. .

So do not wait start WORKING ON YOUR DREAMS .

Do share your experiences here once you get results . BE PROUD TO SCREAM OUT YOUR DREAMS , THEY ARE YOURS .

 

 

 

I NEVER LOSE ….. BECAUSE I NEVER QUIT !!!!

 

The thing is simple , when you are trying to achieve greatness you will have to get through hurdles . Competition is tough in today’s world . Everyone works hard and everyone is prepared to give his 100% .

So you just can’t give up on your dreams , only because you can’t get them in the very first attempt . Remember , if it was easy every one could have done that . So if you are trying to build a pyramid than it will take some time . You may lose to your opponent once , twice or even more . But it’s not that you have not tried your level best but its also because you are trying to beat the best in the business .

So do not panic , small defeats are stepping-stones . Just move on . prepare more , be stronger than the earlier attempt and do not quit.

REMEMBER…

You can not lose .. until you quit ….

LAST 9 days :DO NOT END THE STORY…..BEGIN A NEW ONE ;)

 

WE RATE ABILITY IN MEN BY WHAT THEY FINISH , NOT BY WHAT THEY ATTEMPT .

So it’s simple , I know this is PARTY TIME and I know I am forcing you all a little more . But the truth is these 9 days will never come back .

Many of you will be ending this year remembering the successes and failures you met this year or the moments of happiness or sorrow . Some will think about the profit they made and be happy and the others will mourn over the losses .

But those planning to lick 2014 have already started my friends . They will be utilizing these 9 days like the best preparation time for the coming year . With family and friends around them , they will have extra energy within them .

No office work will give them time to pick up a copy and pen and to jot down their dreams , goals and nearby targets . They will consider this party time as a celebration for the next year success . They will be with themselves and embrace their dreams . They will not end this year’s story rather they will BEGIN A NEW ONE .

 

So gear up . Remember all your dreams . Look into the eyes of all the people who expect something great from you . It’s time to be PHENOMENAL , it’s time to be great , it’s time to LIVE THE DREAM.

I will be there with you all the 9 days with source of inspiration and motivation and with your planning for the upcoming year .

My WEEK # 3 Schedule for the weight loss program will be there on my blog on sunday , that is tomorrow , as always .

So be ready for the most MOTIVATED NEW YEAR CELEBRATION OF YOUR LIFE .

 

 

 

 

 

 

WANT TO BE GREAT : BEHAVE LIKE GREATS

 

 

“Great men are not born great, they grow great . . .”  

                                                                       – MARIO PUZO (THE GOD FATHER)

 

This time I am super excited . I am giving you something which is the core to be successful . You can say it is a recipe to be GREAT .

New Year approaching , people wishing to make this coming year the best one for them selves . They are looking for all sort of opportunities the coming year will provide . They wish to get closer to their dreams or may turn them into reality .

I will be straight and blunt to be great , ACT LIKE GREAT .

You want to earn more , make more friends , lose weight , look good , get a promotion , win a competition , learn a musical instrument , be a singer , dancer or anything , set up a company or you wish to do something above AVERAGE , than friends you need to….

STEP UP YOUR GAME .

You have to make bigger sacrifices ,  wake up early ,  work harder than your colleagues ,  skip tasty food ,  work-out in gym half an hour more than your friend , work 18-19 hours a day , no rest days , no holidays and to keep it simple YOU HAVE TO WORK LIKE GREATS .

You cannot cheat success my friend . Working today , tomorrow , day after tomorrow  and working on  and on is the key . SUCCESS , FAILURES are just words , which should not even matter. Greatness is something more than winning or losing . It’s in you .  It’s a mentality not a feeling .

When you want to be great you do not work according to your feelings , you just do what you have to . Do not waste time celebrating your success or mourning over your failures just work HARD . 

WORK , WORK , WORK … HARD…………………… and this it . 

WHAT IS YOUR “WHY”……..

Find what you want and then go after it as if it is your last chance…………
Put your head phones on …get aloof from everyone around and just be with your self and listen to this video . Hope it inspires you to work more religiously towards your dreams.

SO WHEN ARE YOU PLANNING TO “FAIL”

Failures does not mean you can not succeed . They just mean you have to try one more time . – PAKHANDI PANDIT

ANGELA BROWN : One among those who NEVER QUIT

People use the phrase  “OVERNIGHT SUCCESS” , they just fail to realize the efforts of all the earlier NIGHTS –  PAKHANDI PANDIT

“Angie, I know you like to sing,” her father, a practical autoworker, told Angela Brown, “but you gotta have something to fall back on.”

Brown took her father’s advice. She got a degree in secretarial science before enrolling in Oakwood College, in Huntsville, Alabama. Her aim was to become a singing evangelist. But then the opera bug bit.

So after graduation she headed to Indiana University to study with legendary soprano Virginia Zeani.

Once, when Brown was plagued by self-doubt, Zeani challenged her: “If you want to be the next Aretha Franklin, go, you need no more lessons,” Brown remembers her saying. “But if you want to be the best Verdian soprano this world has ever seen, you must work.”

Work she did. Three times she competed in the Metropolitan Opera National Council Auditions. Three times she failed to make the final round in New York. Then, in 1997 at age 33, the age limit for sopranos to audition, she gave it one more try. She signed up at the last-minute and didn’t even practice, figuring: “All they could do was tell me no, and that didn’t hurt my feelings anymore.” She had the strength she needed to fall back on if she failed.

She won. But making it to New York was just the beginning. Singers don’t spring into starring roles. It took her three more years to become a Met understudy. But waiting in the wings was fine with her. Finally, her time came. When the featured singer fell ill, Brown earned the chance to sing the lead role in Aida. AndThe New York Times proclaimed her début a triumph. Angela Brown, soprano, who had prepared for 20 years, was an “overnight” sensation at age 40.
All those who are attracted to people who just got rich or just got famous , it’s an WAKE UP CALL for them . There is nothing like “JUST GOT FAMOUS , JUST GOT RICH or GOT SUCCESSFUL OVERNIGHT” . Success needs efforts . Efforts when others enjoy life . Efforts when others prefer to sleep . Efforts when nobody sees you preparing . Efforts when you train alone in the ARENA .

Those who clap when you get award does not notice that you have given every second of your life to win that award and your performance is just a REPLICA of what you have already done before.

BE COMFORTABLE OF BEING UNCOMFORTABLE

PREPARE ALONE AND MANY WILL BE THERE SHOUTING FOR YOU  – PAKHANDI PANDIT

 

STOP COUNTING THE COST……..

“Dreams do come true, if only we wish hard enough. You can have anything in life if you will sacrifice everything else for it.” – J.M BARRIE                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           ( PETER PAN )

So today I will talk straight forward and I will be very precise to all my readers . My only question to you is if you DREAM then why the hell you COUNT THE COST ??

Now let me explain to those who still are not sure what I am trying to say . By counting the cost I mean to say why you stop yourself from making sacrifices for your dreams .

Now if you want to LOOSE SOME WEIGHT… you cannot afford to count the cost.. You need to give up sweets , fat , oily stuff. I know its CHRISTMAS and NEW YEAR down the line but if you really want to lose weight and be fit then my friend you have to avoid that CHRISTMAS cake , you have to say NO to your friends for pizza and burger party , you have to stick to a strict diet regime   , while the others enjoy tasty food and you  will have to sleep early so that you can wake up early for a run . Now I know it is difficult and that is why most of you plan to lose weight , but fail . Now its beyond my control dude . You can not count the cost…..

If you need to score well in the coming exams.. Its simple pick up your books and get glued to your study table . Now you have to miss your favourite TV shows , the finals of the football tournament , or a cricket match or you have to miss some parties or hangouts . Remember just one thing you CANNOT COUNT THE COST . Whatever it takes to get to your dreams just give it all….

Stop behaving like THE ORDINARY if you do want to be EXTRA-ORDINARY . Stop doing average things if you want to achieve GREATNESS .

The bigger the dream , more painful are the SACRIFICES – PAKHANDI PANDIT

Listen friends 2013 is a wrap…No matter how hard you try you will never get NOVEMBER 2013 again . So you cannot afford to miss a chance to make a sacrifice for your own DREAM..If you want a prosperous and successful 2014 , the time is now to PREPARE.

Just make a list of all the sacrifices you make and  I promise , the length of the list will be directly proportional to  the success you will enjoy  in future.