DON’t CHANGE the GAME , CHANGE the GAME PLAN

“Success is stumbling from failure to failure with no loss of enthusiasm”

       ― Winston Churchill

Try Try Hard until you succeed . This is probably one of the oldest and most saying which I think each and every one have came across at least  once in his life . Teachers , parents , colleagues , bosses and many others use this saying to guide or motivate their fellow mates. But I have a different opinion about this saying .

I too believe in this statement but with a slight motivation in it . I wish to add on a DIRECTION in which we have to work hard . More over to be very specific the RIGHT DIRECTION .

Have you ever tried to throw a cotton ball as far as a you can throw a stone ?? Now friend do not try to go with the saying because no matter how hard you try or no matter for how long you try to do that thing you will never succeed .

So what am I trying to say ?? Are you all thinking that this is a DEMOTIVATING post ?? NO , not at all . I am just trying to tell you all that if you are trying hard and you have been trying for a long long time then do not get discouraged and change your dreams or quit them. JUST CHANGE YOUR GAME PLAN .

Now how to change your game plan . For that friends you all need to be very sure on what are you aspiring to achieve . Once you have fixed your goals clearly in your mind then try to take some time off and analyse ,  why despite giving so much efforts you didn’t reached your goals .

You have to be a critic of your own . Take one step at a time . Start from the very beginning . You need to search for people who have achieved what you wish to achieve . Learn from them or by their experiences and then align them with the steps you have taken . See what all things you did right and where all you went wrong . Don’t just keep on doing things your own way .

When things are not working out go for a 3-D view of things . Consult to experienced personnel . Tell them what all you are doing and the problems you are facing . Believe me if you are working hard for something which is worthy , you will face difficulties . If it was EASY every body could have done that . So do not panic , do not lose hope . Just have a cup of coffee and say to yourself “ HEY I AM GOOD , LETS TRY THIS IN A DIFFERENT WAY” .

You might be one step short towards your dream , so just search for that right step and then BANGGGG Onnnn !!!!!!!!! 

INDIA is dying..we need some QUALIFIED DOCTORS please…

“Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek.
– Barack Obama”

Like a patient lying in the hospital waiting for the doctors to announce the date of his death , INDIA has lost all its hope and is silently waiting for the doctor’s call . The doctor’s report clearly shows that its not any accident or sudden injury which has brought INDIA in such a state , its CANCER . CANCER which has reached in its final stage . The bacteria and viruses ( corrupt POLITICIAN , GOVERNMENT EMPLOYEES , CIVILIANS and many others) have eaten up various parts of its body and made the body  hollow from inside .

Nowadays the rape cases increasing day by day , scandals and scams becoming frequent , border issues growing intense , terrorists’ and maoists’ increasing terror and the never ending silence of the GOVERNMENT  makes me feel that WILL INDIA SURVIVE ??

PERSONALLY I am afraid and I think some highly qualified doctors are required to not only cure INDIA but also to make it HEALTHIER and STRONGER again as it used to be . I respect all those people who are trying in some or the other way to make the existing doctors (government and other personnel having the authority)  realize their responsibilities and make them do something to cure INDIA .

But I do not think this will solve any issue . I think all these existing doctors are FAKE . They do not know how to cure a normal disease than how can be expect them to OPERATE major CANCERS . All these existing doctors do is they give some pills and injections and postpone the growing cancer for some more days or months . Its time for OPERATION . We need some QUALIFIED DOCTORS . The existing ones need to be thrown out of the HOSPITALS .

An common  girl is being raped , two soldiers get brutally killed , the 5 year old gets raped , kasaab and afzal guru get support from human right and government file their cases too so that it should be decided that giving death verdict to both of these terrorist was just or not . I mean are these signs not enough to realize the danger we are heading towards .

What are we doing is protesting against the government . Do you all think this would do any benefit to any one . The higher authority will punish the lower ones responsible , some changes will be made and things will be normal again . Then we will again wait that when the effect of pills and medicines ( the changes or steps taken by governing authorities to make the people protesting against them silent for a while ) will vanish and when there will be another attack on INDIA .

I wish we  can find some really qualified DOCTORS who think that its not their work rather it is their responsibility to cure INDIA from the CANCER and make it feel healthier again . I also believe that the common man in INDIA can produce many such doctors and INDIA can be healthier again . I feel sad when i see INDIA in such a state .

I want to see some changes and I am starting by being the change I want to see . Each and every one has to fight with these viruses and bacteria . We can not leave things in the hands of those who are incapable of bringing the changes . Start eliminating those viruses one by one . It will take some time but there is no other way . I have already started my campaign to CURE INDIA . Are you all with me ??

LIFE is meant to ENJOY….don’t just run anywhere…run towards your DREAM

Life is a RACE                      Money is POWER

WORK HARD  to be successful                              FEAR nothing

Successful person = Happy life                   MOTIVATION                ETHICS

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT       SELF-IMPROVEMENT           FAITH

Easy dude , just chill .We should not always try to make our lives perfect ,  sometimes we should welcome  life as it comes . I know  life is not an easy place to survive but believe me its an easy place to PARTyyy .

In this ruthless competitive society , we forget who we are and gear ourselves up , with others , for the race which ends when we have completed almost 75-80 percent of our allotted time on EARTH . The only thing left with us at time is a bunch of WISHES we always dreamed of .

To analyze where we are and where we are heading to are the most important  things we need to do if we want to be successful . We keep on working hard through out our lives and wonder how could people working less than them are earning more and living a HAPPY LIFE .

Things like  relaxing , hanging out with friends , partying or travelling with family are considered as waste of time by most of the people doing  jobs in various companies . They feel in order to be successful they should work as hard as they could . But to all such dear friends of mine it may hurt you but a DONKEY too works  hard. Does that makes him RICH ??

The difference between WASTING TIME and TAKING A BREAK , should be very clear . I am not promoting that we should have fun all the time and waste our lives doing nothing . I am just laying emphasis on the approach of giving a break to your self , once you feel that you are loosing control of your own lives . Give a break hang out with friends , visit your old school , places you wish to go and enjoy life .Once you start feeling pressure level going down and you feel relaxed , go for a walk alone and ask your self HAVE I MADE IT LARGE ??? AM I HAPPY WITH THE WORK I AM DOING ?? AM I DOING THE JOB WHICH IS REALLY SATISFACTORY ?? WHAT SHOULD BE MY FUTURE PLANS ?? WHAT ARE THE MISTAKES I HAVE RECTIFY ?? WHAT ARE MY WEAKNESSES ?? WHAT ARE MY STRENGTHS ??

I can bet that most of us have never ever asked these questions to ourselves . Those who have  asked ,they did when they are going through some tough times and so they never get the right answer and they act as the SITUATION demands them to act . So it’s just an advice from this PAKHANDI PANDIT , give some GOOD TIME to your self . Do not rush into things . Do not follow, try to listen your inner voice .

Hey!!! here is a very simple way to live life at its fullest . There are a set of questions given below . Just note them down some where on your note pad , laptops , desktops or any place you wish and answer the questions after every 2 to 3 months and if you are not seeing any different answers or you do not have answers to some of the questions then give a thought dude… YOU ARE RUNNING TOO FAST and may be you’ll end now where. So here are the questions .

Q1. LATEST MOVIE WATCHED IN A MOVIE THEATRE ??

Q2. LATEST BOOK FINISHED READING ??

Q3. LATEST HOLIDAY WITH FRIENDS or FAMILY ?? ( 3-4 days at least )

Q4. LATEST CRUSH ?? ( only applicable if SINGLE 😛 )

Q5. LATEST ACHIEVEMENT YOU MADE , WHICH  YOU COULD BOAST IN FRONT OF YOUR BOSS or PEERS ??

Q6. LATEST THING YOU LEARNED IN LAST 2-3 MONTHS ?? ( may be anything  cooking , a song , dance )

Q7. LATEST THING YOU HAVE YOUR EYE ON ?? ( your boss car or a new house anything )

Q8. LATEST THING YOU DID FOR AN UNKNOWN PERSON , TO MAKE HIM SMILE ?? ( donate some amount to poor , or give gift to poor kids any thing you did on your own )

Q9. LATEST THING YOU DID FOR SOMEONE YOU KNOW , TO MAKE THEM FEEL SPECIAL ?? ( family , kids, girl friend , boy friend , teacher , boss, friend, colleague anyone )

Q10. LATEST WEAKNESS  YOU RECOGNIZED IN YOURSELF ?? ( make a target that you would work on that weakness and will overcome it the next time you will review all these questions . weakness could be professionally or personally )

Just follow this exercise for a year and you can see the changes within you yourself . Just review these questions in 2-3 months. Now do not worry if you can not see changes in the answers but if it goes like this continuously for more than two reviews than you have to work on your approach.

Go for it , live life as it is , beautiful and full of adventures . Explore as much as u can .

YOU HAVE GOT JUST ONE CHANCE TO DO SO!!!!!!!!

POWER LIES WITHIN ME

 I    IMAGINE

I    ACCOMPLISH

I    CREATE

I    DESTROY

I    INVENT

I    CONCEIVE

I    BELIEVE

I    WORK

I    CRY

I    SMILE

I    FIGHT

I    FORGIVE

I    PUNISH

I    PRAY

I    WISH

I    DREAM

I    SUFFER

I    PROSPER

I    ASK

I    ADVICE

I    FALL

I    RISE 

I    OBEY

I    REBEL

I    HATE

I    LOVE

I    CRAWL

I    FLY

I    FOLLOW

I    LEAD

I    LOSE

I    WIN

I    FACE

I    CONQUER

I    BEAR

I    STRIKE

There is nothing in this world , which I can’t do . So if  you  tell me , there is a word  “IMPOSSIBLE” ,  I will just smile at YOU

  “I”  , it seems to me the most motivational word ever written . Its the most inspiring speech I have ever heard . I never go for any meditation technique and I never listen to or read any motivational stuff when I feel low or demotivated . I truly believe in the POWER this single alphabet  “I” contains within itself .

So , when ever you feel depress , broke , things  not working out or  you might  have just  met a  failure ,  and you want something really inspiring . Just close your eyes and and in your mind , with a powerful voice , say  “I” . Say it as many times as you feel like and say it louder than before . Slowly after doing it for a few times , you will start feeling some energy flowing within yourself . There will be a smile on your face . A sense of pleasure and satisfaction may arise . You will feel relaxed, no matter how stressed your situation be . Now at this point , start imagining the various possibilities you have within yourself or you wish to have . Start saying those things and start by first saying   “I” . Like I can DANCE , I will BE RICH , I will BE FIT , I will BE HAPPY , I am BEAUTIFUL , it can be anything you feel like . Daily spending 2-3 min doing this exercise will give you immense energy and believe me , you will never feel that you can’t do something . You can try this  JUST NOW !!! . But its good to try it when no one is around and your mind is at peace . You need to focus just for 2-3 minutes and so I don’t think it will be difficult for anyone who wish to do it .

PANDIT ‘s STUPID ADVICE : When screaming loud , make sure nobody is watching you or listening to you . You could either be beaten up by your family members , room mates or neighbours . You might also find someone asking you very politely   HAVE YOU GONE MAD 😛  😉

INTERESTED , COMMITTED OR FULLY COMMITTED

“We know what we are, but not what we may be.”                                                                      – WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE

Each and Everyone  of us would definitely agree with   the quote used above . But I am here to share my views on the reason , why we are not able to make out  ” what we may be ” . See , it would be very encouraging for each and  every one of  us , if we are able to imagine what we may become in future . It can provide a boost for our daily activities and we will also feel charged up the whole day.

So why couldn’t we imagine ourselves becoming , what we always wished to be . You can get the answer by just answering a simple question . WHICH MODE ARE YOU IN ??

I believe , those who dream and set different goals for themselves , work in three different modes and those are INTERESTED , COMMITTED OR FULLY COMMITTED . In these three modes I can categorize each and everyone who has ever dreamed of anything . You may talk about any category like  successful/unsuccessful , rich /poor , winner/loser  the difference comes in the mode they operate .

INTERESTED

Now almost 95% of us belongs to this mode .  Now this percentage  makes this mode  a very important one . People spend their entire life working in this mode and then in the end they get disappointed. They started blaming others , make excuses and lose faith in themselves . They are normally known as COMMON MAN . These are the ones who tell others things which are impossible to do . They call those things impossible because they have tried doing those things , then they might have quit in between and so they thought that it could never be done. Actually when most people say that they want to be a musician , artist , writer , painter , scientist , author , sport person , athlete , doctor and so on they just KIND OF WANT THAT . They show INTEREST in that activity , buy magazines , read various stuff about them , join courses to learn that  thing and just as they are about to complete their first step they QUIT .

The worst part about quitting something is that you tend to lose faith in yourself , a question comes in your mind that whether you will be able to do that or not , other people associated with you also think that you will quit on other things as well like you did in the previous one . The reason for NEW YEAR resolutions to fail within a month or two is the same . This mode gives you nothing . The valuable time you spend on things , while not being serious on that stuff and just working in an INTERESTED mode , is a complete  waste . So its better to decide before then to repent afterwards because this mode will bring you only failures and you will end up with nothing .

COMMITTED 

This mode would  makes thing to start working for you . 4% of the remaining people work in this mode . People working in this mode are more serious towards their work . They know how much hard work is required and they give their 100% . These people get the reward for their hard work . They become popular at their workplace . People respect them for the discipline they show towards their craft . They get a reasonable amount of success . They tend to be financially sound . These people also live a happy life because they know that they are working hard each day .

When these people look around they society , they feel satisfied and they never push them selves to see in their future and look “WHAT THEY MAY BE “ if they start operating in 120% mode i.e FULLY COMMITTED mode .That is when the problem arises.  A thought strikes  in their mind that why are they not blowing up like MARK ZUCKERBERG , MICHAEL JORDAN , STEVE JOBS , LIONEL MESSI and others famous personalities . They never realize that they have more number of gears within them as they thought . They keep on operating in 4th or 5th gear completely unaware of the fact that they can operate in 8th or 9th gear also . They feel unsatisfied even after achieving so much . They feel that something is missing  in their lives but they couldn’t make out what . Highly paid employees , managers and many entrepreneurs belong to this category .

FULLY COMMITTED

These are the remaining 1% .  I call them HISTORY MAKERS . These are the ones who leave a legacy behind them . They invent , create and enjoy what ever life brings to them . They are completely focused on what they have to do and they spend all their time in making that thing turn reality . They do not do the talking stuff , these are men of actions . Very few of them know how will they do , what they say THEY WILL  but each and every one of them know one thing , that THEY WILL . These people work on the principle of  NO EXCUSES . They are completely engrossed in their craft . They work ,  giving 120% each time . These are the ones who believe that at any point in their lives they can be the author of their own story and no matter how the story is going at that very moment , they can always write the end as they wish it to be .

These people not only get appreciation from their family , friends or work mates but they are also accepted globally . They love to live life as it comes and they believe in the limitless possibilities it may offer . They always get their goals on time . Once they achieve a goal ,they party , and then set another goal for themselves . Winning and never losing becomes a part of their life style .

So to all those who wish to reach great heights in life , come on the time is now . What are you waiting for . Get up , charge yourself and go on to make a legacy . Remember you need to be fully committed in whatever you do if you want to taste that SUCCESS . You have to live with your dreams every day . You have to motivate yourself every day . Quitting couldn’t be n option for you guys and gals . You all have to imagine every day WHAT YOU MAY BE . Then once you feel enthusiastic after seeing your great possibilities in future then you just have to come back to your present and start working towards your dream .

THE GAME IS ON  , YOU DECIDE IN WHICH MODE YOU WILL BE OPERATING……… YOU WANT TO BE INTERESTED , COMMITTED OR YOU WANT A WIKI PAGE FOR YOURSELF 🙂 

NEWTON’s LAW OF SUCCESS IN MY STYLE

“It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer”
-ALBERT EINSTEIN

So as  Mr. Einstein quoted , I obeyed him . I just stayed with the problem : HOW TO GET SUCCESS , a little longer . I may sound a little weird but some how I correlated NEWTON’s LAWS OF MOTION with the THEORY OF SUCCESS and I decided to present my idea to all my readers . I think i would be able to simplify the complex theory and concept about success in just three laws . I promise , that these three LAWs OF SUCCESS  are more than enough for anyone who wants to be successful in life .

1. NEWTONS’ FIRST LAW OF MOTION –Every object in a state of uniform motion or rest tends to remain in that state of motion or rest unless an external force is applied to it

PAKHANDI PANDIT’s  FIRST LAW OF SUCCESS –I have analysed through my experience that people who got SUCCESSFUL were not extraordinary people with excellent backgrounds . Rather they all were very ordinary people with something unique in them. which I definitely found missing in those who remain unsuccessful. BILL GATES  , STEVE JOBS , SACHIN TENDULKAR , ALBERT EINSTEIN and many others  have one thing common , which makes them successful , and that is an EXTERNAL FORCE . The external force is the MOTIVE which drives you to change the state in which you are currently in . If you want to be successful you need to have that WHY?? going inside your mind all the time . WHY?? signifies the question we should ask ourselves before taking any action . WHY are we studying ? WHY are we working here ? WHY we want to become rich ? WHY we want to reduce weight ? Unless and until we know that WHY?? we will never be able to keep our promises . Time-tables and schedules don’t work for most of us because we donot have that WHY?? .

So the statement of the law is –

Every individual in any state  i.e MOTION ( working hard but not able to succeed ) or REST ( lazy, doing nothing )  , tends to remain in that state unless an external FORCE (motive , reason ) is  applied  on that INDIVIDUAL

2. NEWTON’S SECOND LAW OF MOTION – The net force applied on the object is equal to the rate of change of linear momentum , and the change is in the direction of the force applied .

   PAKHANDI PANDIT’s  SECOND LAW OF SUCCESS –People tend to get excited about their  SUCCESS or get tensed about their FAILURES when they compare their result with others . If they fail they start complaining and blaming others. If they don’t then they boast about their victory . Such people never achieve success in their lives .Successful people never compare their victories or defeats with others . They always compare the performances with their previous performance and then  decide whether they lost their momentum or rather accelerated . They even notice the direction in which they gained momentum because an increase in momentum in a wrong direction also leads to FAILURE .

So the MOTIVE which is your external force decides  the direction in which you will go , that is the path you will follow . If the motive is wrong then your path chosen will also be wrong and you will never ever be successful . So its important to chose the correct path , it may be a difficult one and full of hurdle,  still it will lead you to success.

So the statement of the law is –

The net force ( MOTIVE ) is equal to the rate of change of momentum ( i.e the change in rate of FAILURE to SUCCESS ) and the change ( FAILURE or SUCCESS ) is in the direction of the force applied ( depends upon type of motive ) 

3. NEWTONS’ FIRST LAW OF MOTION –Every action has an equal and opposite reaction

PAKHANDIPANDIT’s  THIRD LAW OF SUCCESS – When we are in a race to be successful then we sometimes tend to forget about the very simple principle of GIVE AND TAKE . The interesting thing is that , this rule has no discrimination . WHITE / BLACK , AFRICAN/AMERICAN/INDIAN , YOUNG/OLD , MALE/FEMALE , RICH/POOR  no matter whom so ever it may be , the rule never change . You GIVE , You TAKE . More importantly newton used a word in his law and that is ” equal ” . This equal has a great significance and all successful people know this . Success follows a simple rule : you will get as much success as you want . Now a good news for those who get frustrated when they do not get success even when they try hard again and again . The good news is that you  just don’t quit  and keep on trying because the  success you will get will be equal to the amount of hard work  you have put in .

So the statement of the law is –

The more you work to be successful , with the correct motive and direction , the larger your SUCCESS will be .

LIVING VS EXISTING

   

 “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” 
                                                                            – MAE WEST

If you have a PURPOSE in life , to work hard , to sleep late nights , to wake up early morning , to quit  parties e.t.c ,  then I think you  LIVE else you just EXIST my friend .

Before going into deep discussion on both these types of  life styles I just want to ask something to all my readers . Do you LIVE or EXIST ?? Now for all those who know the answer , GOOD NEWS !! , you are almost half way done . But for those who are in a dilemma or are not sure what exactly I am talking about ,  just answer some of my simple questions .

Do  you feel that you have ever made any sacrifice to achieve your goals or things you dream for ?? Do you feel bad when you realize that others are achieving significant rewards for comparatively less hard work than you do ?? Do you feel alone  because your friends are not with you or your family is not supportive ?? Do you feel bored or exhausted at your workplace ,  when you think that  you are working more and paid less ??

I know 99% have felt the same way in one or more of the above mentioned situations . Its so because very few individuals  know the art to live ,  others just exist . Sacrifices will not bother to those who want to achieve something significant in their lives but yes it will bother others who are not ready to pay the price for the reward they wish to receive . Being SAD is an imaginary situation for those who LIVE . They face both good and bad times . They go through tough situations in life but they always remain HAPPY . They always see the positive side of situation and move on . They never grudge others’ success . They know they will get their share of success sooner or later .

WE humans are considered to be the  UNPARALLELED  creation of  GOD . What is our purpose in life ,  must be  the most important thing we should know  . We should know who we are as  INDIVIDUALS  . We should know how our birth on this planet EARTH will benefit others living here . We should know how are we going to  make our lives meaningful . The day we know all these things , we stop  EXISTING  and start LIVING  that very day .

There are many dramatic changes in  INDIVIDUALS   when they know ,that they have a  PURPOSE  to live here on this planet . They no more make excuses they actually make adjustments .  The word QUITTING  exists no more in their vocabulary . They love working hard and  the more they get that , the more they enjoy . They never feel bore ,  on the contrary they are always high-spirited  and full of enthusiasm . No matter how tedious their job might get , they exactly know, why they are putting  so much effort  .They know, sooner or later,they would get the fruit of their hard work .

So if you are reading this article just feel proud of being a part of the most powerful community called HUMANS , realize the  immense power inside and please just don’t waste your life by doing what others do . Everyday ,  ask your self   a question  “ HAVE I MADE IT LARGE ??  ” . Dream big , work on it , do not be afraid of failures. Keep on working hard till you turn that dream into reality .  And once you get plenty of  what you wish for  start sharing it to others . It may be   money , knowledge , love , friendship , health , wisdom or spiritualism .

please LIVE  don’t  just  EXIST .

Hey everyone !! if you have spent so much time reading the article then please share how you feel after reading it . DO you have a PURPOSE in life , for which you work daily and enjoy life as it comes . If you want to keep it a secret then you can message me . CLICK on the link PANDIT BOLEGA  on the right hand side of this post . Thank you!!