FINDING IT DIFFICULT TO WORK ON YOUR GOALS DAILY ??? READ THIS

 

You decide on a particular day that this would be the last day when you run away from working hard for your goals . You arrange all the resources books , sports equipment , gears or whatever it may be required . You listen to motivational lectures and get inspired , you shut down your phone and isolate yourself from the social media just to make sure nothing comes in your way . BUT on the very first day you MESS UP!!!!!!!

You cannot ignore the  phone call , or your friends’ facebook messages or your favorite dish . And suddenly you feel guilty for not doing what you have planned for. You start questioning your own potential . Some of you may even think that you may not be capable enough to achieve that particular goal of yours . 

I will be writing something below which I have used and got results . I too like many others have faced such situations and I OVERCAME . So dear friends I am going to pour something really deep . Stop all activities you are engaged with and read this with ultimate peace in your mind.

” When you realize that its not possible to follow the schedule , routine , diet or workout and you find your self loosing the grip . Just stand up and go to a MIRROR nearby and WATCH your self . FACE TO FACE .  Face the person who always FAIL . Face the person who quits . Face the person who procrastinate . And then ask to your self seeing deep into your own eyes why you are DOING SUCH A THING TO YOUR SELF . WHY you are letting the expectations of people who love you , believe in you , down ? How can you let your dreams just slip away infront of your own yes ?? Then stay silent for two minutes “

Then no matter what ever the time may be . No matter if you have to wake the whole night . No matter if you have to skip your meals . No matter if you have to go out for a run in the afternoon . No matter what you go and KILL THAT DAY …... 

“All men dream: but not equally. Those who dream by night in the dusty recesses of their minds wake up in the day to find it was vanity, but the dreamers of the day are dangerous men, for they may act their dreams with open eyes, to make it possible.”  – T.E LAWRENCE

FAILED …. ready to bounce back ??? KEEP 3 Things in mind

 

Now this will change things I promise . After all the COME BACKS I have analysed , I found out that every one who has ever succeeded after failing have done 3 things , which are common to all.

1 . You have already failed and still you are on track to accomplish that SOMETHING . So find out reasons for your failure . Make a list and compare this list to those who have succeeded in doing that thing or they are considered to be capable enough to achieve that target . See what other qualities they have . Make a list of all and then……………………………. LICK THEM ALL.. KILL IT…!!!!

2. You couldn’t make the last time but you know you could have done it . This is the case with most of us . Once the results are out and we fail , we claim that if we have tried harder we might have done that . Now you all must realize that there are things stopping you from achieving your goals . Lack of focus , distractions , weak will power and many others . You can change this behavior but for that you have to BEAT YOUR MINDSET . Every time your mind says you can’t , SCREAM to it that YOU WILL . And then immediately start doing things , start taking actions immediately . You have to act like a champion . Realize that as you go to study , workout , office work or do anything you tend to get distracted . Don’t be . Next time you get distracted say to your self you can’t cheat on your dreams and then get back to work . It will be difficult for few days but then it will be a habit . WINNING IS A HABIT .. NOT A COINCIDENCE .

3. For all those who find it difficult to spend quality amount of time doing your stuff start using the word NO more often . Somebody asks you to party and you are yet to complete your work for today , SAY NO . Somebody asks you to go out and have food which might spoil your diet plan .. SAY NO.  Somebody may ask you to skip your workout for a day .. SAY NO . Say no to everything that distracts you from your goals may it be social media like whatsapp , facebook or parties with friends or it may be your mobile phones . You got to make some sacrifices . It isn’t easy because if it was easy everybody could have done that…

So get back and live your dreams….

Waiting for the right time ??????? WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

I have been tired of meeting people having ideas , dreams , goals and  talent inside them and still not doing anything . They can visualize things . They know they can do it but they wait  , wait , wait and wait for the RIGHT TIME to come .

Actually I figured out by talking to them that the RIGHT TIME they talk about is actually a time when the chances of failure get reduce to almost 90% . When they realize that now taking a particular step is on a safer side and will give them minimum loss , some of them never find that RIGHT TIME and they live their entire life seeing others fulfilling their dreams .

How many times you have thought of doing something but stopped just fearing that I am not strong enough or competent enough or don’t have the required resources and so the failure seems imminent .  How many times we want to start working on our dreams but we fear thinking what if we do not HIT ??

To all my friends and readers I want to say… The RIGHT TIME you all are waiting for will never come . What you have to do is just forget about the result and start working on your goals . Things will never be perfect , resources will never be surplus , you will never have the sufficient money . Every thing will come automatically when you start working for your goals .

Just do one thing forget about all the hurdles coming across your path towards your dreams and start working towards it . Just take the three simple steps given below.

1. If you do not have any resource to start with start GATHERING INFORMATION about your dream .

2. Start reading about people who have already achieved that dream .

3. Most important start sharing to your family members , friends and community about what you want to do .

Some will mock at your dreams , ignore them , do not pay attention to them . There will be some who will help you and show you how to take that first step towards your goal . And I promise just by doing 3 things mentioned above you will see results in a month. .

So do not wait start WORKING ON YOUR DREAMS .

Do share your experiences here once you get results . BE PROUD TO SCREAM OUT YOUR DREAMS , THEY ARE YOURS .

 

 

 

HOW MUCH YOU “SCALE” YOURSELF ???

 

“Always dream and shoot higher than you know you can do. Do not bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself.”  – WILLIAM FAULKNER

 

Dream Big , something which you might have heard many times from various motivational speakers or read in motivational books . But then once you dream that BIG , do you find yourself capable of handling that success ? Do you feel comfortable imaging yourself getting the OSCAR or the NOBEL PRIZE ?

If not then my friend there will be a stage in your journey towards your dreams when either you will give up or you will be satisfied with small VICTORIES .

START  BEHAVING AND IMAGING LIKE PEOPLE WHO ARE SUCCESSFUL. EAT LIKE THEM , TALK LIKE THEM AND ESPECIALLY WORK LIKE THEM .

You cannot be a millionaire first and then start following his work ethics . You cannot win an olympic medal first and then start to wake up early for your work outs . You can not win an oscar first and then start working for hours and hours doing rehearsals and giving your best shot .

Now since you have to behave like then you have to SCALE your self at par .  Believe me every individual is GREAT . We all have that potential within us . You do not have to be  a mediocre , you deserve much more . Just have faith in your abilities and feel and behave like CHAMPIONS . What ever you want to do or be ITS POSSIBLE .

SO HOW MUCH YOU “SCALE” YOURSELF NOW ??

WHAT IS YOUR “WHY”……..

Find what you want and then go after it as if it is your last chance…………
Put your head phones on …get aloof from everyone around and just be with your self and listen to this video . Hope it inspires you to work more religiously towards your dreams.

THE MAN WHO GAVE UP

The one thing that matters is YOUR WILL POWER. JUST watch this video and feel the power inside every normal individual. If he can do it anybody can…..

SO WHEN ARE YOU STARTING TO GO FOR YOUR DREAMS……

GREAT WORK NEED TIME , PATIENCE AND BELIEVE…

“THE STRONGEST OF THE WARRIORS ARE THESE TWO – MECCA MANUSCRIPT ”

We have a tendency to expect results right from the moment we started to do anything . Some even imagine the result before even started doing work . They go day dreaming so as to what and how will things be when he/she will do work .

Results or end goal is the driving force for many of us . Well according to me it may benefit some but in most cases it is just a thing which distracts you from your ultimate target .

Remember  if you are achieving something and you are not tested on two of the most important parameters – TIME and PATIENCE , then my friend you have achieved something very ordinary and if you look around yourself you will find many achieving the same thing or even better .

Once you decide to achieve great heights and to reach such a level where only a few can get then be prepared to be tested on the above two parameters . All those who have ever been successful know this secret and so they never felt anxious when things are not working and they neither felt baffled when there are no results . They knew they will get the desired results one day .

You never try to build they biggest , the strongest wall in the world . If you are asked to do so , then you just go to the place and lay one brick at a time , as perfectly as you can , and that is it . Then again go another day and lay the second brick . Soon you will have a wall .

You never try to be the fastest piano player in the world and dream that every day . If you dream to be one , then you just go to your classes regularly , without skipping one , and do as you are asked to do by your teacher . Soon after an year you will see your fingers floating over the board .

So in your journey to be successful do not try to be extraordinary the very first day , just try to be THE BEST POSSIBLE YOU , and give time and patience in your thing .

Nourish your art with TIME and PATIENCE , and soon you will have a tree bearing the sweetest fruits of SUCCESS – PAKHANDI PANDIT

 

STEVEN SPIELBERG : THE KID WHO STAYS WITH THE CAMERA

 

 

“I don’t dream at night, I dream at day, I dream all day; I’m dreaming for living.”- STEVEN SPIELBERG

 

 

He was no scholar, and his classmates teased him. Rather than read, the kid really preferred running around with a 8 mm camera, shooting homemade movies of wrecks of his Lionel train set (which he showed to friends for a small fee).

In his sophomore year of high school, he dropped out. But when his parents persuaded him to return, he was mistakenly placed in a learning-disabled class. He lasted one month. Only when the family moved to another town did he land in a more suitable high school, where he eventually graduated.

After being denied entrance into a traditional film-making school, Steven Spielberg enrolled in English at California State College at Long Beach. Then in 1965, he recalls, in one of those serendipitous moments, his life took a complete turn. Visiting Universal Studios, he met Chuck Silvers, an executive in the editorial department. Silvers liked the kid who made 8 mm films and invited him back sometime to visit.

He appeared the next day. Without a job or security clearance, Spielberg (dressed in a dark suit and tie, carrying his father’s briefcase with nothing inside but “a sandwich and candy bars”) strode confidently up to the guard at the gate of Universal and gave him a casual wave. The guard waved back. He was in.

“For the entire summer,” Spielberg remembers, “I dressed in my suit and hung out with the directors and writers [including Silvers, who knew the kid wasn’t a studio employee, but winked at the deception]. I even found an office that wasn’t being used, and became a squatter. I bought some plastic tiles and put my name in the building directory: Steven Spielberg, Room 23C.”

It paid off for everyone. Ten years later, the 28-year-old Spielberg directed Jaws, which took in $470 million, then the highest-grossing movie of all time. Dozens of films and awards have followed because Steven Spielberg knew what his teachers didn’t — talent is in the eyes of the filmmaker.

THE JOURNEY MAY SEEM TO BE IMPOSSIBLE AT THE START , YOU JUST NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THE END GOAL… ENJOY THE JOURNEY AND KEEP YOUR DREAMS ALIVE IN YOUR HEART……. THATS THE KEY TO ACHIEVE GREATNESS – PAKHANDI PANDIT

 

 

You will never achieve GREATNESS unless you…. CRY…..WORKING HARD for it…

 

The problem with most of us is that we dream really BIG . Now I know its good to dream BIG but dreaming alone will not fetch you the prize . The bigger you dream , the harder you need to work . This is where the problem starts . People complain that despite working hard for a long time they do not get RESULTS . At this point they get frustrate and stop working hard .

“If it had been that simple to rule the jungle , there would have been many KINGS” – PAKHANDI PANDIT

The lion rule he jungle and he is the supreme king . When you dream big you chose not only CONSISTENT HARD WORK but also a COMPETITION with group of most talented people who are diligently working for the same goal . Now when we work our 100 % we think that we are giving everything what we have and so we start expecting results . The problem is we would definitely get the results if we had been running the RACE ALONE .

Bigger dreams do not require an average EFFORT from you , they will not also tolerate a GOOD PREPARATION . They need the GREATNESS hidden inside you to play the GAME . You need to work insanely night and day . People should feel insecure seeing you WORKING HARD .  Their should be rumour about you being successful in the coming years . People should give your example . And you meanwhile without being deviated from all these praises must work harder and harder and harder .

SLEEP when you are assured of that you cannot stay awake anymore

EAT when you are assured that it would not be a waste of time

PARTY when you are sure that you have achieved your nearest goal .

REST……………… are you kidding me……GREATNESS and REST are ANTONYMS……..

 BE PHENOMENAL…………..OR BE FORGOTTEN  

 

BAD LISTENER

“YOU SHOULD JUST LISTEN TO YOUR HEART…..and LEARN TO IGNORE THE CHAOS….OUTSIDE” – PAKHANDI PANDIT