FAILED …. ready to bounce back ??? KEEP 3 Things in mind

 

Now this will change things I promise . After all the COME BACKS I have analysed , I found out that every one who has ever succeeded after failing have done 3 things , which are common to all.

1 . You have already failed and still you are on track to accomplish that SOMETHING . So find out reasons for your failure . Make a list and compare this list to those who have succeeded in doing that thing or they are considered to be capable enough to achieve that target . See what other qualities they have . Make a list of all and then……………………………. LICK THEM ALL.. KILL IT…!!!!

2. You couldn’t make the last time but you know you could have done it . This is the case with most of us . Once the results are out and we fail , we claim that if we have tried harder we might have done that . Now you all must realize that there are things stopping you from achieving your goals . Lack of focus , distractions , weak will power and many others . You can change this behavior but for that you have to BEAT YOUR MINDSET . Every time your mind says you can’t , SCREAM to it that YOU WILL . And then immediately start doing things , start taking actions immediately . You have to act like a champion . Realize that as you go to study , workout , office work or do anything you tend to get distracted . Don’t be . Next time you get distracted say to your self you can’t cheat on your dreams and then get back to work . It will be difficult for few days but then it will be a habit . WINNING IS A HABIT .. NOT A COINCIDENCE .

3. For all those who find it difficult to spend quality amount of time doing your stuff start using the word NO more often . Somebody asks you to party and you are yet to complete your work for today , SAY NO . Somebody asks you to go out and have food which might spoil your diet plan .. SAY NO.  Somebody may ask you to skip your workout for a day .. SAY NO . Say no to everything that distracts you from your goals may it be social media like whatsapp , facebook or parties with friends or it may be your mobile phones . You got to make some sacrifices . It isn’t easy because if it was easy everybody could have done that…

So get back and live your dreams….

Even if you LOSE by an inch…….you are still a LOSER

“My son was almost there” , “He just failed by one mark” , “They lost by just one goal” , “I was just fraction behind him in the race ,and i might have won if……”

I am sure all of you would have came across such remarks , statements or phrases . Most of the time they are thrown to defend somebody or to sympathize somebody on his defeat .    But the truth remains the same , YOU ARE NOT A WINNER .

Its not like those who are successful had never suffered any defeat , its just that they never make any sort of excuses . The average potential guys who deceive themselves and their peers use such phrases and they try to console themselves assuming that they are not very far from that guy / gal who has won .

SUCCESS is ALLERGIC to AVERAGE…………………put this thing into your damn mind. You can’t be successful while operating on the 3rd or 4th gear . You need to hit the top gear .

Doing the same thing and in the same way as others do will land you in the same place as others are . And we very well know that the percentage of successful people are much lesser than the unsuccessful ones.

That  extra bit of effort when everybody quits , that extra hour of study when everybody gets bored , that extra repetition you make while everyone else felt tired , that EXTRA SOMETHING is what makes all the difference and separates the WINNER from the LOSER.

Those who lose could never make up that extra last bit . So gear up , sweat , train hard and don’t quit until you are DONE.